This is me...

 I am quite ethereal sometimes, I get all dreamy about spirituality and think thoughts like "what's as the basis of ourselves" or "what can society in an awoken age really achieve"... New ageism is sooo spacey like that. 

Being can have a theme, being can be built from nothing, being can feel like home. Being, and choosing what influences us in becoming, is an art not a science! Things like "I'd love to be a surfer" are often coupled with "but surfers are such wasters" is a common road block in social perception. When we allow our lives to shape us by choosing activities and actions that appeal to us, we have to give in to reality. Maybe our "dream self" is ideally on the path of desired action. This would mean an aligned system. When the system is unaligned it's possible to carve out an identity from fragments of what's available.  So it's an art form! Good luck! Accept yourself no matter what occurs. 

Mashed potato and sweetcorn mulch, served with smoked mackerel. 

Pasta (especially mini macaroni) with cranberries, cashew butter and green pesto!? Throw in some diced veggie ham and it a delish dish! 

 I have learnt, from people, that they really pour themselves into a project, any project.. Perfect dad, best minister, friendly postman. I hate it when they can't find a way to succeed (it used to be geared up against such projects) so then they try again and again, until they're dead inside. When they have so much to give! It used to be considered immature to be enthusiastic (breaking was an inevitable part of adulthood) but I think it can actually be repeatably achieved! With success comes extra zeal!