my opinoin on love and marriage

 love, true love, is not that rare if you are living a life that manifests your true self. Choose one such encounter at an appropriate life moment for settling down and hey presto. marriage on the other hand is a waste of time except to confer legal rights which sholdreally just happen in a registry office. its a waste of time and money and really just part of socialetal competition that results in a one upping contest that brings about feelings of inadequacy. why not have a "serious together" party on a more casual level?